A:Answerthe code physically comes with the goodies when best buy texts/emails you that it is ready for pick up. If you got it shipped, then the digital code and the goodies will be sent to your address - I assume.
A:AnswerThey're two separate items, as long as it's in your order status on your account you can set how you receive the steelbook separately from the disk release.
I recommend shipping or picking up the preordered game on launch, but choosing pick up for the steelbook at a later date so you can choose the style you want.
A:AnswerI contacted support about this and they said on there end it says it will release on the 12/10/20 but my pickup date was scheduled for 12/11/20. Seems like it's just a pre caution as I am sure we can get it on the 10th at least. As for the steam release, this has to do with time zones. I am not entirely sure about why the steam release is that date as I am curious about that too.