A:AnswerIf you can run a single HDMI cable from player to sound system, yes. If you must use fiber optic audio cable going in to your audio system, You will have to purchase a converter and run the digital audio port and digital audio cable to the converter and fiber optical cable to your box/soundbar. Mine works fine with a single good quality HDMI cable from player to subwoofer/soundbar and then to the TV. I run my apple TV into the subwoofer as well - hdmi cables all (predates wireless).
A:AnswerIt's not a universal remote so unless you have a Sony TV, you are correct in needing to use Your TV remote.
Even for the HDMI1 and 2.
It really not an issue though having two remotes.
On my TV remote I use the Source button, at the top right.
Then I use the the arrow buttons for the HDMI1 or 2.
I use the Sony remote for the DVD blue ray player.